You think you're fat? Well, yes you ARE!!!.

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Imma' tell you something if you think you're fat then you probably are in fact fat but f*cking own it. I mean who the hell said that it's a bad thing? Because unless it's seriously affecting your health, it isn't really bad.
You think you're too skinny or in other words flat with nothing feminine about you? well, again you probably are but then again it's fine so f*cking own it. And again unless it's seriously harming your health, it's fine.
We grow up with this pressure to look a certain way because otherwise we're not beautiful but really we should just stop that and stand in front of the mirror and look at ourselves, really look at ourselves, with our own eyes and not with our spouse's, our parents' or society's eyes just our eyes. Only then can we decide if we want to change something in the way we look or not. Because 99% of the time we don't want to change for ourselves but for the people around us be it your boyfriend or your family who's pressuring you to lose or gain weight so you can be prettier, sexier or more attractive but really f*ck that, you're so much more than that.
If you really wanna change make sure you're doing it for yourself and yourself only because everyone and everything else is perishable because in reality we are alone and we only have our own self to support us and have our back and yes, sometimes we have people, family and friends but really we don't need them. Yes, it's nice to have support but it isn't essential and we need to learn how to not just survive but live without it since it can never be constant.
If you can't be your own supporter and backbone then you'll probably break as easily as glass, if you can't love yourself and have that love be enough then no one else is ever gonna love you and if you can't be content alone then you'll never be happy.
We all need to love ourselves and how we are alone before looking to please others. So, if you love yourself and you feel the happiest when you're 'fat' or 'flat', stay just the way you're and if anyone tells you to change when you don't want to, tell him to f*ck off and never let anyone make you insecure in fact never be insecure because you're f*cking awesome even 'fat' and 'flat'.

P.S: I in no way support or encourage obesity, anorexia, or any kind of unhealthy habits or lifestyle. Also, I do not own the rights to pictures used, I just found them on google and with that being said  you can find me on Instagram and Twitter @sara_guesses and on my Facebook page Sara Guesses. and it'd be really great if you could follow me and like my page :) 




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